According to Wiki passive aggressive means this:
Passive–aggressive behavior is dealing with expectations in interpersonal or occupational situations in an obstructionist or hostile manner that indicates aggression, or, in more general terms, expressing aggression in non-assertive (i.e. passive or indirect) ways. It can be seen in some cases as a personality trait or disorder marked by a pervasive pattern of negative attitudes and passive, usually disavowed, resistance in interpersonal or occupational situations.
I need to either A be better at it, or B just be more blunt. Especially at work. The eye rolling, and attitude I deal with on a daily basis is just nuts. I think if it was anyone else here, they would have put her in her place a million times. But I just can’t risk my job because of someone else’s attitude. I’m trying my hardest to kill her with kindness. I guess I need like a ray gun of kindness to zap her with. Does anyone know where I can purchase one of those?